actually arini tido awal sgt.. agaknye sbb penat kut sbb dr pagi ade kelas.. n then tgh ari pon ade kelas.. abes kelas plak trus g joging.. haha... actually i'm not used to make myself occupied dats y i'm tired n i'm actually getting use to it.. :) well.. actually lepas maghrib mkn megi ruski sbb mmg da lameeeee sgt teingin nak makan.. pas mkn 2 tetido la puleee... tau2 je t'bgn kul 1130 sbb menod msg nak bg buku... time 2 pon mamai2 lagi.. al kisahnye.. lpas tejage 2 ingt nak study la ckit.. so minum la nescafe.. n then ble da pkul 1 lebeh 2.. plan nak tdo.. baring punye baring.. x le tido la pule.. tp xnak cont study.. so baring je la atas katil 2... sampai la skang.. pukul 430 da pon.. so tibe2 teingat nak tulis blog.. so here i am... hehe.. pjg betul mukadimah nye..
well a fren of mine.. yg diberi name roy.. 4ward dis msg 2 me.. maybe he 4wd dis msg to some of u guys also.. but anyway.. msg itu b'bunyik
jgn tinggalkan org yg kite syg utk org yg kite suke,
kerana org yg kite suke akan tinggalkan kite utk org yg mereka syg,
jgn cube dapatkan ape yg kite syg,
tp syglah dgn ape yg kite ade sblm kite kehilangan org yg kite syg,
krn org yg sygkan kite mungkin org yg sebenarnye kite syg,
lebih baik utk kite bersame dgn org yg syg kan kite drpd org yg kite syg,
krn org yg kite suke mngkin hanye sukekan kite tanpa rase syg...
hmm.. amacm? i believe every1 has their own opinion on this but i wud like 2 share wat i think about d statement...
statement kt ats ni general sbnye.. but i wud like to discuss in terms of boy girl relationship.. hmmm.. let me explain wat i feel thru a situation.. hopefully it will b easily understood.. lets say ade 4 watak dlm situasi ni.. 2 guys A n B n 2 girls C n D.. katekanlah A n B ni kawan bek dgn C.. they started of s frens but as time goes on they somehow develop feelings towards each other.. A had such strong feelings towards C.. n nak di pendekkan crite.. si A ni sgt2 sygkan si C.. paham2 je la ehh.. tp si C ni plak suke kat B... tp si B ni plak suke kat D.. haaa... cmne 2.. so D ni suke sape plak? D ni x suke sape2 pon kat ats.. die neutral jek.. wic make things more complicated u c.. kenape complicated? sbb there's no definite answer for each of the person involved.. masing2 xtau d real answer regarding how the other persons feels bout themselves.. so.. bebalik kpd crite di atas.. yg A ni tau yg C ni suke kat B tp die still setie kat si C.. ye la da syg sgt la katekan.. yg si C ni plak.. syg gak kat si A tp just as frens.. kalo nak ikut suke die kat si B ni.. n yg si B ni plak jenis yg mcm suke gak kat si C tp wenever si D 2 came into d picture si C ni mcm gone in d wind la plak.. mksdnye B suke gak kat C tp die lagi suke kat D... n B ni has been acting like this because he is uncertain about how D feels about him.. die rase insecure la sbb 2 die still hold on dgn C.. so.. in this situation how does statement di atas 2 bleh kite apply?
selalu kan dgr statement "lg bek kite bersame yg org yg syg kite dr org yg kite syg"? mmg betul gak statement tu.. but it depends.. kitepon xble la nak simply live with d person who loves us but we dont love them back.. mungkin kite akan ade rase besalah sbb org 2 syg sgt kat kite n mebe kite ni plak dlm situasi yg x mnyebelahi perasaan kite.. so we tend to choose for a safer option wic is to go to the person who will take a good care of us.. x salah pon kite buat keputusan mcm 2.. standard la 2.. kite akan tend to be in a situation yg safe.. who likes n uncertain n unpredictable things rite? n then dgn positive thinking nye kite yakin dat d feelings can b developd with time.. it is just a matter of time.. mmg x salah but it is not definitely true.. this thing is not applicable to every1.. we've seen so many broken marriages n some of the reason they gave is they have never loved their spouse despite the effort 2.. sbb 2 org kate perasaan ni x bleh dipakse2.. tp.. ade je marriage yg survive n they even live happier than those who married each other mase suke same suke.. btul x?
so sebena nye lah.. my opinion is.. there is no definite answer.. right or wrong answer esp matters associated with feelings.. it is very subjective n yg penting we trust our intuition plus some rational thinking plus seek help from God n yg penting bile kite da buat keputusan 2 kite try la make d best out of it.. kalo kite dah cube sehabes bek dgn keputusan yg kite buat 2 but things didnt turn d way we desire.. trime lah dgn hati yg t'buke.. maybe mmg bukan jodoh kite.. n everything happens for a reason.. we mite not c y certain things happen to us.. but He knows wat is d best for us for He is our creator n again He knows BEST about everything dat happen..
sebenye kan nak elaborate pjg lagi tp cm mls.. haha.. cerite kat atas 2 pon mcm x ulas sgt pon.. n by d way.. crite kat ats 2 rekaan semate2.. kalo ade t'same ngn mane2 idup korang 2.. ia adalah kebetulan semate2... ngeh2... gud luck! :)
well a fren of mine.. yg diberi name roy.. 4ward dis msg 2 me.. maybe he 4wd dis msg to some of u guys also.. but anyway.. msg itu b'bunyik
jgn tinggalkan org yg kite syg utk org yg kite suke,
kerana org yg kite suke akan tinggalkan kite utk org yg mereka syg,
jgn cube dapatkan ape yg kite syg,
tp syglah dgn ape yg kite ade sblm kite kehilangan org yg kite syg,
krn org yg sygkan kite mungkin org yg sebenarnye kite syg,
lebih baik utk kite bersame dgn org yg syg kan kite drpd org yg kite syg,
krn org yg kite suke mngkin hanye sukekan kite tanpa rase syg...
hmm.. amacm? i believe every1 has their own opinion on this but i wud like 2 share wat i think about d statement...
statement kt ats ni general sbnye.. but i wud like to discuss in terms of boy girl relationship.. hmmm.. let me explain wat i feel thru a situation.. hopefully it will b easily understood.. lets say ade 4 watak dlm situasi ni.. 2 guys A n B n 2 girls C n D.. katekanlah A n B ni kawan bek dgn C.. they started of s frens but as time goes on they somehow develop feelings towards each other.. A had such strong feelings towards C.. n nak di pendekkan crite.. si A ni sgt2 sygkan si C.. paham2 je la ehh.. tp si C ni plak suke kat B... tp si B ni plak suke kat D.. haaa... cmne 2.. so D ni suke sape plak? D ni x suke sape2 pon kat ats.. die neutral jek.. wic make things more complicated u c.. kenape complicated? sbb there's no definite answer for each of the person involved.. masing2 xtau d real answer regarding how the other persons feels bout themselves.. so.. bebalik kpd crite di atas.. yg A ni tau yg C ni suke kat B tp die still setie kat si C.. ye la da syg sgt la katekan.. yg si C ni plak.. syg gak kat si A tp just as frens.. kalo nak ikut suke die kat si B ni.. n yg si B ni plak jenis yg mcm suke gak kat si C tp wenever si D 2 came into d picture si C ni mcm gone in d wind la plak.. mksdnye B suke gak kat C tp die lagi suke kat D... n B ni has been acting like this because he is uncertain about how D feels about him.. die rase insecure la sbb 2 die still hold on dgn C.. so.. in this situation how does statement di atas 2 bleh kite apply?
selalu kan dgr statement "lg bek kite bersame yg org yg syg kite dr org yg kite syg"? mmg betul gak statement tu.. but it depends.. kitepon xble la nak simply live with d person who loves us but we dont love them back.. mungkin kite akan ade rase besalah sbb org 2 syg sgt kat kite n mebe kite ni plak dlm situasi yg x mnyebelahi perasaan kite.. so we tend to choose for a safer option wic is to go to the person who will take a good care of us.. x salah pon kite buat keputusan mcm 2.. standard la 2.. kite akan tend to be in a situation yg safe.. who likes n uncertain n unpredictable things rite? n then dgn positive thinking nye kite yakin dat d feelings can b developd with time.. it is just a matter of time.. mmg x salah but it is not definitely true.. this thing is not applicable to every1.. we've seen so many broken marriages n some of the reason they gave is they have never loved their spouse despite the effort 2.. sbb 2 org kate perasaan ni x bleh dipakse2.. tp.. ade je marriage yg survive n they even live happier than those who married each other mase suke same suke.. btul x?
so sebena nye lah.. my opinion is.. there is no definite answer.. right or wrong answer esp matters associated with feelings.. it is very subjective n yg penting we trust our intuition plus some rational thinking plus seek help from God n yg penting bile kite da buat keputusan 2 kite try la make d best out of it.. kalo kite dah cube sehabes bek dgn keputusan yg kite buat 2 but things didnt turn d way we desire.. trime lah dgn hati yg t'buke.. maybe mmg bukan jodoh kite.. n everything happens for a reason.. we mite not c y certain things happen to us.. but He knows wat is d best for us for He is our creator n again He knows BEST about everything dat happen..
sebenye kan nak elaborate pjg lagi tp cm mls.. haha.. cerite kat atas 2 pon mcm x ulas sgt pon.. n by d way.. crite kat ats 2 rekaan semate2.. kalo ade t'same ngn mane2 idup korang 2.. ia adalah kebetulan semate2... ngeh2... gud luck! :)
6 comments:
adoiii syai....panjang bangat sihhh....aku nmpak A, B, C, D ngan tilisan biru yg besar2 tu jer...hahaha
aku pun rasa ia begitu pnjg...disebabkan masa mencemburui...aku bc sepintas lalu....tp dpt aku smpulkan...everything depends on how high is our expectation on each other n how much we can sacrifice for our happiness n d other side...ble kte bersama dgn org yg syg kte...kte akan lebey secure..tetapi ble kte nak bersama dgn org yg kte suka...kte kena keje kuat...dan ble telampau keje kuat mgkn akan jd penat dan smpi 1 point u`ll regret...hurmm...mayb dak2 psychi leh bg cmmnt bedasarkan pmblajaran kamu2
well my opinion is u need to stick to the person u love.its ur life anyway.work for it.takyah nak be in shadow n follow the flow.U NEED TO TAKE THE STEP FORWARD.tapi if bebetul xde jodh,n the one that luvs u still waits 4u(which he/she will if he/she really do luv u) then go for the one luvs u.see luv is a wonderfull thing.i has the ability to grow... =P
ps-eh ako ni jiwang kah?wah ako xamik psyci tau lala~ hoo
wakaka.. jiwangs sungguh anda ib.. ape2 pon mmg it depends on masing2 pnye belief.. priority.. bla3.. but i do believe kalo kite betul2 ske org 2 kite kne la usehe.. mane la tau menjadi.. kalo x jadi mcm ib ckp 2.. x de jodoh la maknenyee.. but at least we tried :)
cik syai..complex skali tulisan anda itu. jadi hypoG sy membacenye. encek roy itu pule, memberi msg yg mdalam skali maksudnye. mtrigger kamu utk berfikir n menulis dgn complex skali.
i agree wif lala..if u want to b wif sumone u like, the price u pay is higher than simply accepting those who luv u. but then, it's when the price is so high that v really appreciate having wut v have rite...
huhuhu
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